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Thursday 25 April 2019
Child, a Breathing Marriage Certificate, a Pithy Review of Ayobami Adebayo’s Stay with me
Love and heartbreak? Politics and the pendulum-like political ambience? Or the exhumation of the concept of Abiku mythology? Which of these can we precisely mention as the concern of this novel? In my subjective opinion, Adebayo’s Stay with me is a perfect blend of all these pre-occupations. Published in 2017 by Canongate Books Ltd in Britain, the book unfurls a long rope of tale that has thematic nodes of love, betrayal, polygamy, politics and marriage, focusing on the main characters of Yejide and her husband, Akin.
When Yejide marries to Akin, of course, like any other marriage, the belief is that things will be blissful. Isn’t conjugal bliss the wish that proceeds from every mouth? But the challenge rises and the only reason that Akin’s mother calls her daughter-in-law a witch is because she has not given birth to a child. Consequently,the couple become serious about matters that the parents and relatives perceive as pertaining to their lives. There comes the need for test after test and being cynic about the efficacy of one doctor and going to another. The wife, who earlier didn’t believe so much in seeking spiritual means to solving problem has been compelled to go to the mountain and pray and perform some rituals that involve breastfeeding a goat.
Of course she becomes pregnant but the doctor sees nothing. She is delusional and the husband, Akin, becomes afraid that his wife has gone mad. Yejide, on her own part ignores him and the child, the true certificate that will certify and sustain their marriage becomes her only hope.
Later, Dotun comes because he has been deported from the US, and in Lagos, he has lost his job. True, he needs to clear his head. Not long after, Yejide becomes pregnant again and a child is given birth to. The child is discovered to be of the sickle cell anaemia and efforts to keep this handsome and much-laboured-for child to live emerges, it becomes a race, a fierce one. But does this diseased certificate certify their marriage as thought?
No one is truly impeccable. Akin is quite a weak hero who makes a rash decision because of the desperate need to get a child. The decision actually breaks his home and his reason. But even if a house is demolished, can’t it be rebuilt to build a more beautiful one? The reason I love this brilliant story is not only because of the fluidly woven plot, that is, a narration of love, politics, death and polygamy, but also, it gives us the waves of lives and marriages not as a rising sea that you stay by the beach and watch but as a life experienced by some people with blood, oxygen, water and voices. It radiates with exceptional brilliance and the plot resonates in my mind.
The book is narrated in multiple voices. A voice that belongs to the author and the other two voices that belong to the main characters: Yejide and Akin. The masculinity in the male’s voice is concrete just as that of the female voice. Although some of the dialogues are written in dialects, this does not impede the message of the story.
Actually, Adebayo lacks something in her writing, that is, the ability to write a tasteless sentence. Every word in the story has its spectacle, its taste and flavour. Could you ever remain an emotional rock after reading Stay with me? The plot will stay with you forever, I bet. All in all, it’s a book I will recommend.
Tuesday 22 August 2017
Work Title: Roles of Leaders in the Theatre of Conflict, War and Peace on African Socio-Political, and Cultural Stages
Roles
of Leaders in the Theatre of Conflict, War and Peace on African
Socio-Political, and Cultural Stages
Abstract
Africa has long been the parole of
conflicts, war, terrorism, et cetera, in the extensive langue of the whole
world’s conflict. Consequently, this essay proposes to suggest policies and
considerations that can effect and sustain peace in Africa, drawing from instances
and causes of conflicts across the continent.
Keywords: Africa, Nigeria, West, Southern,
Northern, Conflict, Security, Peace, Leadership.
The
Theatre of Conflict and the Role of Leadership in Africa
“Conflict.” This is a word of many
functions. In the realm of creative writing, it stands for a beginning, a
reason to write. Its synonyms are: turmoil, war, terrorism, et cetera. The
ungradable antonymous word to it is ‘Peace.’ The theatre of conflict and the
attempt to end it in all axes of Africa has necessitated a discourse on peace
and security.
In West Africa, the melodramatic acts
of conflict can mostly be exemplified by cases of terrorist attack by the
Islamist sect, Boko Haram, seated in Northern Nigeria. Cited in Wetho et al.,
Soyinka laments, “When you get a situation where a bunch of people can go into
a place of worship and open fire through the windows, you have reached a
certain dismal watershed in the life of the nation.”[1] By this, he succinctly
expresses the detrimental effects of the sect on the entirety of the country;
causing an overarching failure to Nigeria and countries surrounding her. The
roles of leaders in the birth of terrorism in Nigeria are cogent. The allegations
of corruption, gross financial misconducts, despotic and self-centred policies,
against Nigerian leaders have generated anger and many complaints, not only
from the terrorists but from the entire populace.
In the Horn of Africa, the presence of
political disagreements and terrorist acts almost shredded the countries in the
region into pieces. Healy supports:
The peace and security outlook for the
Horn of Africa remains bleak. The conflict audit includes protracted state
collapse in Somalia, deep hostility between Ethiopia and Eritrea, a fragile
peace agreement between North and South Sudan, continuing instability in
Darfur, periodic bouts of unrest in the Ogaden and northern Uganda, and two
international peacekeeping operations___ In Mogadishu and Darfur___
struggling to contain violence.[2]
Healy shows that the causes of crises
in this region of Africa are the policies of nations concerning international
relations and the leaders’ penchants for megalomania.
Plus xenophobia in South
Africa, the extent of conflict in Northern Africa wails for installation of peace
and security across the continent. Quoting Kaplan (1994), Paul Richards
illustrates that, “Islamist terror in Algeria and Egypt, and the apparently
pointless destruction associated with the activities of the Lord’s Resistance
Army in Uganda, are seen by some as evidence that Africa is in the grip of
anarchy.”[3] Ramirez views conflict in
a dimension quite different from Richard’s. To him, conflict comes in form of “vicious
cycles of war, disease, and poverty…”[4] He suggests that, peace and
security “should be achieved in an African way.”[5]
Peace
and Security in Africa: Suggestions from a (Hypothetical) Leader
The experience I had with hunger in
childhood and how I reacted to this, bitter and desperate, makes me to suggest
that Africa should invest in agriculture. Besides agriculture, infrastructural
development is a sure step in tackling underdevelopment and achieving peace and
security. “The concept of peace in
Africa will have a meaning only when underdevelopment is tackled effectively.
One can talk of conscience, moral law, and dignity of man, truth, justice,
freedom, democracy, love, and free will to a well-fed and secure person and
something will sink in.”[6]
The African populace is very bitter
because of the self-centredness of most leaders. It has been mentioned that
Nigerian senators receive the highest salary in the world. Whereas, this is a
country plagued by abject poverty and living conditions that can induce
violence in various hues among the commoners. Reduction in the inflated incomes
of these leaders could help gaining trust from citizens and enhance peace.
Economic policies affect stability in
human societies. For example, the open market policy allows countries to
transact without restriction. A general currency could also be introduced to
ease transactions among countries in the continent. Such development in economy
nurtures friendly relations among nations. Empowering the females in Africa is
also a catalyst in the growth of the continent’s economy. Sowe, cited by Ekesionye and Okolo, asserted that,
“women are at the centre of development processes, and that complete and
harmonious development cannot be achieved without them.”[7]
Also cultural and inter-ethnic
tolerance is necessary because, “frequently we are habituated to perceive our
neighbours___ the different clans or the ethnic groups___ as
enemies who only want to make war against us…”[8] “If we want development,
peace, and tolerance, we have to deepen our knowledge of the roots of
aggression, intolerance, and the particular peculiarities of each people.”[9] Nationalism rather than
ethnicity is a mechanism for extracting oneness from diversity and Africa needs
the spirit.
Though Africa is a continent plagued
by violence, no continent is a virgin of the plague. Concluding in Martin’s
words:
When we assert that a
sustainable development will not be possible without a peaceful world, we
cannot forget that peace is something more substantial than merely the absence
of war, and that prosperity cannot be limited to economic growth as a remedy,
as often is the case, but it has to include something more important and not
necessarily connected with the economical development___ call it
what you like: inner peace, spirituality, happiness. Some of the poor underdeveloped
people are happier than the great consumers of the so-called developed world, as
the rate of suicides ratifies.[10]
[1]
Ayo Wetho et al. “’Baptism of
Fire:’ Boko Haram and the Reign of Terror in Nigeria.” Africa Today, Vol 59,
No.2 (2012) pp 43. USA: Indiana
University Press. Web.
[2] Healy, Sally. “Seeking peace
and security in the Horn of Africa: the contribution of the Inter-Governmental
Authority on Development,” International
Affairs (Royal Institute of International Affairs 1944), Vol. 87,
No. 1
(2011), pp 105
[3] Richards, Paul. “New Political
Violence in Africa,” GeoJournal, Vol. 47 No. 3, Grid Group Cultural Theory
(1999) pp 433. Web.
[4]
Ramirez, J. Martin. “Peace and
Development in Africa,” International
Journal on World Peace, Vol. 22, No. 3
(2005)
pp 51
[5] ibid
[6] Ibid 52
[7] Ekesionye E.N and Okolo A.N. “Women
empowerment and participation in economic activities: Indispensable tools for
self-reliance and development of Nigerian society.” Educational Research and Review Vol. 7(1), pp. 10-18, 5 January,
2012
[8] Ibid
71
[9] ibid
[10] Ibid
Works Cited
Ayo
Wetho et al. “’Baptism of Fire:’ Boko Haram
and the Reign of Terror in Nigeria.” Africa
Today, Vol 59,
No.2 (2012) pp 43. USA: Indiana
University Press. Web.
Ekesionye E.N and Okolo A.N.
“Women empowerment and participation in economic activities: Indispensable
tools for self-reliance and development of Nigerian society.” Educational Research and Review Vol.
7(1), pp. 10-18, 5 January, 2012
Healy, Sally. “Seeking peace
and security in the Horn of Africa: the contribution of the Inter-Governmental
Authority on Development,” International Affairs (Royal Institute of
International Affairs 1944), Vol. 87,
No. 1 (2011), pp 105
Richards, Paul. “New
Political Violence in Africa,” GeoJournal, Vol. 47 No. 3, Grid Group Cultural Theory
(1999) pp 433. Web.
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Tuesday 25 April 2017
ALLUVIA ON THE SHORE (for Aylan Kurdi, the drowned Syrian boy and after Sudarsan Pattnaick’s sand sculpture)
Archeology is far
from the reach of my branching intellects but I know
how we created these
marching molecules, this mob of liquid, this
continent of
water. I know that its creation followed
the logic of addition.
A lone drop of greed
was longing for fellowship with a scorching hope
when I volunteered a
drop of lie, you followed suit and dropped leeching
impoverishment with
generousity, the way he contributed the supersonic semen
of rape. By this, a
drop grew into a trickling river, a flood that extorts
homes from owners
just as insurrection that snatches authority from
Governments, they
philanthroped by giving that, and it raced round the globe
like Firefox. We
dropped dreaded discrimination and all matured into
a sour sea of anger,
into raw war, world’s whore.
Now, let’s do the BODMAS of our ruins
without syntax errors.
= we are the alluvia
of our misdeeds,
washed ashore by them
and lying prone as ashamed statues,
noon sun is a
scorching sincerity to our sights, and the fluorescence
of the night moon
haunts us. Even stars, the fluorescent-fishes
of heaven’s ocean
denude our shame.
Friday 21 April 2017
WOMEN OF NIGERIA: PROBLEMS, PANACEA AND PROSPECTS
The
weight of humans’ inhumanity to fellow humans, especially females, being
targets of such trajectory, provokes revaluation of the unidirectional
evolution theory and a re-conception of the nature of human existence as
cyclical, like Yorubas’ cosmology. Perhaps, civilisation has reached its point
of diminishing returns; one would wonder when one witnesses the gravity of
brutalities done against women sometimes. Like chameleon, this violence appears
in different colours. At times, it takes the crimson hue of physical assaults;
sometimes, unimaginably iridescent.
Many
have personally witnessed occasions where females are physically abused by
their husbands or relatives. Most times when men launch violence against wives,
it is over barrenness or malesness.
From relatives on the other hand, it is over either the husband’s death or
inheritance.
Also,
culture and religion contribute heavily to the brutalities females experience
in societies. They have some patriarchal conspiracy theories deliberately
formulated to subjugate the female gender to the male counterpart.
In
religion for instance, both Bible and Koran obviously connive and command that
the wife always subject herself to the husband, care for, and sheepishly obey
him.
Similarly,
culture dictates many unprintable rules to women. In Yoruba culture, a wife
must not relocate to the family house, no matter how hellish the husband’s
house; else, she will be tagged, dálémosú,
a psychologically inimical nomenclature. The culture specifically
emphasises that, a wife must be deflowered by the husband; not vice versa. But
one wonders, who or what defiles them
when many a defiled wife doubling as
a rape victim suffers psychological violence from husband and relatives. Gender
difference should not define sexuality, thus, such pronouncements are blows
against the humanity of the female gender. Note, every Nigerian culture has its
version of female dehumanisation.
For
the purpose of clarity, some illustrations will be fetched from Nigerian
newspapers, the archives of realities.
In
Nigerian Tribune, Yejide Gbenga
writes:
“Research reveals that 25% of the women in Nigeria
go through an ordeal of the domestic violence and every fourth Nigerian woman
suffers domestic violence in her lifetime with the worst forms cited as
battery…the victim, for a long time keeps the situation from people, protecting
her abuser.”[i]
Rape
is one of the attributes of animals which humans have chosen to adopt nowadays,
and this births the aforementioned thought of humans’ probable attainment of
point of diminishing returns in civilsation, thus, the slippery slope to
animalistic practices. In September 2015, “a woman, Mrs Ogodo Egede, aged 34,
was reportedly raped to death by a man she allegedly owed #1500.”[ii]
To
extend this, nowadays, the news of rape and sexploitation
in Nigerian tertiary institutions and societies is quotidian. Female students
at all levels and institutions are not safe from the onslaught of these unruly sceptres.
To evince this, The Guardian reports:
“The police statement also indicated that two people
disguised as vigilantes, collected
phones and raped two female students…”[iii]
In sequel to the
above, it is cogent to mention that, the hoi polloi are not the only subjects
of the barbarism. However, contrary to the expected from Nigerian
intellectuals, they are deeply immersed in the hideous practice.
Expectantly, Obafemi
Awolowo, a Nigerian politician and political philosopher, builds a frothy, sacrosanct
image of the Nigerian intellectuals; equating his expectations with qualities
expected of a good leader, he writes:
“the regime of mental magnitude, properly and
eminently equipped with a considerable measure of intellectual comprehension
and cognition, insight and spiritual illumination. In this regime, we are free
from: (1) the negative emotions of anger, hate, fear, envy or jealousy… (2) Indulgence
in the wrong types of food and drinks, ostentatious consumption and (3)
excessive or immoral craving for sex. In short, in this regime, we conquer what
Kant calls “the tyranny of the flesh” and become free.”[iv]
Contrary
to the impeccable images Awolowo carved for Nigerian intellectuals, Nigerian tertiary
institutions, nowadays, are the dens of atrocities, authoritarianism and
unchecked sexploitation of females. Though
we find the most constant, acerbic critics of government policies among some
lecturers guilty of these filthy practices, they execute the act without a
speck of guilt but with the feel of immunity, while victims of these busy goads
turn sufferers and smilers.
Testifying
to the presence and strength of this evil, in The Nation newspaper, a columnist writes:
“However, there are quite a number of students who
have suffered sexual abuses in the universities and many more who will continue
to suffer sexual violence because there are no structures in place or the
existing structures are not strong enough to absorb or withstand the influence
of the calibre of personalities involved.”[v]
Acquired
by fortune, education is seen as a means to an end of authoritarianism by this
category of people.
Violence
against women gains infant shock when it comes from males, compared to when
females are both the subjects and direct objects of the action. Apparently,
factual readings and literary fictions have shown instances of women mutilated
(physically and psychologically) by fellow women. For example, Chika Unigwe’s On Black Sisters’ Street depicts
occasions where dehumanisation, triggered by a woman to fellow women, serves as
a technology of human trafficking as exemplified in Madam’s definition of
Sisi’s identity, “…you’re persona non grata in this country. You do not exist,”[vi]
she defines.
Also
illustratively, The Nation newspaper
reports, “the Lagos state government has taken custody of Adebimpe Badmus, the
16 year old girl allegedly burnt with an iron by her aunt, Ketu.”[vii] Worse
still, the culprit had two other female accomplices.
Symptoms of the disease of women brutalisation
in Nigeria shown, there is a need to mention the causes too. The major
pathogens of violence against women are: poverty, illiteracy, culture,
religion, patriarchy etc
Although,
chronic are the symptoms of violence against women, the malady is not
incurable. To cure the disease of restless libidos, important authorities
should be equipped to divest the lecturers, influential culprits and hosts of
the illness, of their immunities. A columnist suggests, “it is time for civil
societies to go beyond creating awareness on the ills of sexual harassment to build
and strengthen institutions to fight against the immunity that some addicted
lecturers enjoy.”[viii]
Furthermore,
the government should make wife-empowerment a compulsion for potential
husbands; institutions should be established to maintain such. For, the concept
of a full-house wife is a psychological bully of women, subjugating them to
forcible humility.
Plus,
a law compelling very rich politicians and business tycoons to financially
assist charity institutions that succour females should be executed. It is
apparently scarce that a well-to-do mother gives her child to another family
for nurturing.
Besides
formal education and skill acquisitions at grassroots levels, females should
also be trained in martial arts for the purpose of self-defence.
Moreover,
Ombudsman could have an application which females can use on smartphones to
report cases of violence, in addition to spending to embark on (risky) journeys
to their offices. It should also serve guidance purpose on the basis of
self-defence.
Relevance
lies in upholding the Rule of Law so that the perpetrators (of any status), faces
the music, constitutionally. Without this, proliferation of violence against
women should rather be anticipated.
Besides
violation of women, the country could be in mess should the government remain calm
when pro-activeness is needed. At least, the abduction of the Chibok girls
would have been prevented, were the concerned authorities pro-active.
The
recommended solutions for the purpose of annihilating female brutalisation
followed, some additional problems are simultaneously addressed, perhaps
accidentally. Some child marriages are birthed by parents’ poor state or
tyranny of some paedophile. Women being empowered, there may be reduced reasons
to give their precious wards out for early marriages.
Also,
if the rule of law is upheld, tyranny will be shamed.
Another
prospect involves the boosting of Gross Domestic Product (GDP) by the goods and
services women acquire and sell. Their wealth keeps the violent aloof and
fertilises the economy to an extent.
The
axiom, health is wealth is widely
accepted because they complement each other.
Thus, with skills, which create wealth, women can purchase health.
In
summary, this essay has touched several forms and appearances of violence
against women with illustrations from life experiences, newspapers and
literatures. It has stated the causes, treatments and the prospects of such
treatments, encapsulating women and the country at large.
In
conclusion, a committed attempt to terminate violence of any kind: physical,
psychological etc, against women is symptomatic of the country’s desires for
greatness; since males need females for reproduction, our fatherland needs these
mothers for progression.
OLADIMEJI DAMILOLA JOSEPH
WORKS
CITED
[ii] The Nation, Vol 9. No
3330, (6th September, 2015)
[iii] The Guardian Vol 33. No
13,887 (5th January, 2017): pp 44.
[iv] Wiredu, Korasi et al. “Post-independence African Political
Philosophy.” A Companion to African
Philosophy Ed. Oxford: Blackwell Publishing Limited
(2004): pp 247
[v] Ibid, pp 5
[vi] Unigwe, Chika. On Black Sisters’ Street. London:
Vintage, (2009):pp 182, print.
[vii] Ibid, vol 10. No 3339. (16th
September, 2015): pp 53.
[viii] Ibid, vol 9. No. 3330 (6th September, 2015): pp 15.Women and Society
Monday 17 April 2017
BUSTED BABE (Longlisted for Adhocfiction International Flash Fiction Prize)
Apart from your charming hair and ebony skin,
one other thing that attracted me to you was your English which defied the Queen’s.
‘Driver, driver! A tyre has busted,’ you said, staring at me like I were the
driver or some Messiah. The motor swerved and our bodies collided. Like you
wanted me to confirm your prowess, ‘a tyre has busted!’ You yelled again. The
word you meant, I had heard iridescent pronunciations of it: beasted, bested, and
busted, like yours. So my surprise was little.
I looked into your eyes, seeking fright, but
fire-flies burst light of love and I knew I had busted my busty babe. When the
bus stopped, you smiled like I was offloading honey into your heart as I
whispered, ‘b-u-r-s-t, burst, not b-u-s-t. Remember to always swallow your –ed
at the end of the word.’ Abruptly, your face clouded, rage burst
OLADIMEJI DAMILOLA.
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BUSTED BABE
Saturday 15 April 2017
ONCE UPON A SUICIDE MISSION
Two
agents on a mission swim stealthily into a cave where it does not dawn to
assassinate the resident of the cave. They needn’t light their way, it isn’t
crooked. Straight. Ordinarily, anything H2O should not touch them if
they want to remain alive and solid. But it is the best method, to have them
diffused by the pool. So, this is their
first and last bath. As the cave feels them journeying down slowly, towards the
apartment of the unwanted resident, the agents dissolve gradually.
The
target smuggles itself in during social night, when the cave is in a game of
hide and seek with another cave that releases millions of its viscous occupants
like Israelites from Egypt, through a vascularised tunnel and at the point of diminishing
returns.
For
four months, the target has been surreptitiously living therein, preventing
itself from marking any footprint that can get it trailed and busted. When in
the fourth month the cave starts feeling its presence; she decides to send these
two agents who plan to rush into the mouth of the target through the straw by
which it feeds. This day, the target is fasting, the agents fail and do not
return to tell the tale. The cave feels severe stomach ache for days and hopes
the target will soon be exiled but, no.
A
month after this, the cave goes to a hospital to meet the doctor with whom she
has had an appointment but he is undergoing autopsy himself. On the way home,
she is hit by a frivolous car and hospitalised. Two months consecrated for the
cave’s healing climb the presence of the unwanted tenant. So, alive, happy and
crying, it comes out.
OLADIMEJI DAMILOLA
ONCE UPON A SUICIDE MISSION
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